Enneagram Relationship Compatibility: Type Seven and Type Nine

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on November 23, 2022

Type Seven and Nine is a common relationship combination on the Enneagram. While their energy often draws them in different directions, they can complement each other's blind spots well. The Nine helps to ground the Seven’s exuberant energy and demonstrates how to focus on a single area and see it through.

What Enneagram Should a Type 3 Marry?

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on August 06, 2022

Enneagram Type 3s might seem like they’re all about business, but they also desire an intense and loving relationship. As one of the three heart types of the Enneagram system, The Achiever has a strong connection to the emotions of others and easily recognizes how someone is feeling. However, when it comes to examining their own feelings, Type 3s have a hard time. So with their tough exterior and on-the-go lifestyle, what Enneagram should a 3 marry?

Pros and Cons of Personality Testing Your Date

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on June 02, 2022

Whether you’re going on dates or in a new and budding relationship, you might consider a person’s personality type a significant factor in getting to know them. 

But when you're out on a date with someone, you’d rarely have the guts to whip out your phone and ask them to take the 16-type test then and there! 

6 Things You Can Learn from a Couple’s Psychometrics Test

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on June 01, 2022

A couple’s psychometric test can help romantic partners open a new and honest conversation about how they think, what they believe, and why they behave the way they do. Personality styles and personal preferences will be revealed during a couple’s psychometric test, in a unique context where self-discovery and self-disclosure can occur simultaneously.

ISFJ and ENTP: Secrets Behind This Incredible Pairing of Opposites

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on April 13, 2022

When it comes to personality typology, many speculate that dating a similar personality type to your own will lead to a more harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Others believe that opposites can both attract and complement each other in the long-term. So, what happens when you date your complete Myers and Briggs type opposite?

Enneagram Type 4 and Type 9 Relationship Compatibility

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on February 16, 2022

What do you get when you put a creative, individualistic Enneagram Type 4 together with “The Peacemaker” Type 9? The pairing of these two Enneagram types can go one of two ways—it can seem a bit too dramatic or like a match made in heaven. Whether these types hit it off or find themselves grappling for understanding, like any compatibility question, it may come down to the individuals and how much work they’re willing to invest in their relationship.

How to Use Myers Briggs Compatibility to Help You Find your Valentine's Day Love Match

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on February 10, 2022

Your personality type says a lot about you, but did you know it also helps build better relationships? From platonic friendships to work relationships, you can harness your knowledge of personality type to bring yourself a step closer to fulfillment in various areas of your life. This fulfillment is also possible when you’re searching for a romantic partner, and you’d be surprised how helpful Myers-Briggs compatibility is when you’re dating.  

New Research Shows There Are Actually Seven Love Styles, Not Five

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on February 08, 2022

Truity’s original research with over 500,000 volunteers drives the creation of a new 7 Love Styles test, showing how we give and receive love in modern relationships

Think of a time when someone made you feel really loved. What did they do? Was it an amazingly personalized compliment? A sympathetic ear when you were going through a rough patch? Or maybe just a perfectly hot cup of coffee in bed?

What Personality Type is the Best Love Match for an INFJ this Valentine’s Day?

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on February 08, 2022

Idealistic and reserved, INFJ personalities usually seek harmonious and long-lasting romantic relationships. Still, as an INFJ myself, I can also attest we can be difficult to know, as we often go into our shells for fear of being hurt or betrayed by others. 

So, which personality type is the best love match for the sensitive, soulmate seeking INFJ? Read on to discover our best guesses.

But first, what constitutes a good match?


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